
Mum ! I miss you very much
...you left without saying goodbye...
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Happy Birthday Mum !~

Joyce | Jerryc | Jorryn | Melvin | Rani - The Five Musketeers !
Monday, October 22, 2007
Fear of Loss OR Desire for Gain ??
Hi Friends,
I celebrated my 38th birthday on 20th Oct which is 2 days back. Its a happy ocassion as I also celebrated my best friend wedding.
But its also the day that I lost my whole blog Attact Your Dreams. You will see error when you go to the site now.
What really happened?
This is the second time that I lost my blog. First time happened 6 months back because i did not backup and there was some corruptions in my server settings. This time round i did backup while i try a new plugin file and I could not restore the backup after that!
What was painful was the hours spend in putting in contents, and the valuable comments left behind by the various readers.
Was i upset ? Well yes and no.
I believed that things happened for a reason !
You see..months back, I have been thinking of moving from wordpress to Joomla but i was hesitant to take the first step and I was already very very familiar with wordpress and moving on to Joomla means I have to start all over again.
Its always 2 things that move a person to do the hardest things.. Fear of loss or Desire for gain..
I am glad for this loss becos now I have no choice but to learn joomla..
So always look back in your life..when things happened, its always telling us something..something that we are suppose to do but did not, the universe is always showing signs...be more aware..u will be surprised..
Cheers and God Bless
Melvin Tan
Blk 174B Edgedale Plains
Singapore 822174
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Sunday, October 21, 2007
Birthday Celebration Continues~
Happy 38th Birthday Melvin !~
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Thought Provoking Funeral
I post a snippets of his interesting post here..
"Yesterday, I drove up to Tonopah Nevada, which is about 3 hours north of Las Vegas, for a funeral. I have only been to one other funeral in my life, and I find them an interesting ritual. When I die, I would like to have a giant party celebrating my life, with music, drinks, great food and LOTS of laughter. This funeral made me think about what I would like to leave as my “legacy.” The thing I’d like to remember most is how I helped people, and my heart. When I think about my mortality, it reminds me to love a little deeper, be more patient, try a few more adventures. I think one trap that many of us fall into is not taking into account our mortality. If we all thought we might die in the next six months, we would behave differently. I want to believe I would be more conscious of our connection to each other. I’d risk feeling stupid, or risk failure to achieve a goal. I’d love my friends and family and appreciate each and every one of them.
If you have five minutes today, think about how your life will be remembered if you died in the next six months. Are you proud of your life? What you’ve done to help others? The relationships you’ve formed? We’re not here forever folks, so live fully, live now!"
Mum, this post resonates so much when I read it...its so you..its as if this reader is writing about you....You left your good name and I am so proud of you Mum...You lived a short life but you left a huge legacy...I love you Mum !
Monday, October 15, 2007
Another surprise from a Doctor Diagnosis on my back !
151007 ( 1030am ) - Mum, after 2 months of treatment and the hefty chiropractic bills, I decided to seek a second opinion for my backpain. I was referred to SGH after a 2 months wait. After looking at my previous xray and some diagnosis, the orthopedic "suggested" that I "may" have autoimmune disease. He can only confirm after the blood test. So off I went for a "Gene Type" blood test to determine if its my immune system that is causing all these pains and numbness. So the result will be out 01th Nov 07 1140am, thats when I am back from China. Lets pray for the best !Sunday, October 14, 2007
Melvin Tan and Jordan Ang

Mum, see the two pictures ? The first picture is me. Second picture is Jordan. Your adopted god grandson graduated from his K class. You were so anxious on his first day in school...he has since graduated and next year he will be going to primary 1. Time flies..he still asked about you. He is luvable ! Next week, I will post some pictures of my friend's sons that I took pictures with during the weekend ( Housewarming and Birthday Parties )Mum, My Birthday and Your Birthday
141007 ( 0141am ) Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Day 4 UYMG ( Kuala Lumpur )
Stephen quoted this and I find it hard not to list it here.
Yesterday is a Cancelled Cheque
Tomorrow is a Promissory Notes
Today is Cash on Hand.
Monday | Tuesday | Wednesday | Thursday | Friday | Saturday | Sunday | Monday | Tuesday | Wednesday | Thursday | Friday
** SOMEDAY will never come !!!!! ** So let's start with TODAY !! - Let TODAY be the brokest day of the rest of my life and design the lifestyle that we truly desires.
The next speaker * which I did not get her name *
shared on Success Navigation System
Navigation
- Where are you now ?
- Where do you want to go ?
- How do you get there? ( Map )
Vision
- Without a vision people perish
- Big enough WHY will get you out of bed
- Clear purpose...empower your brain by Clarity and you will figure out the How
- See BEYOND reality...."I have a DREAM"
- Vision Board
- The Law of Attraction
- Identity Beliefs
- I am a Firewalker
Focus
- Be Solution not Problem Orientated
- Bso ( Bright Shiny Objects )
- Dont listen to Dream Stealers
- Believe in yourself
The Journey - Sensory Acuity
- Be Response-able
change your approach
Develop Flexibility
- Flexibility is power
- Expanding your Beliefs creates new possibilities
The Power of Team Work
Identify someone who is willing to help you !
- Satyajit ( Initial Business Kickstart Mentor )
- XXXX ( Adwords Mentor )
- XXXX ( Business Continuity Mentor )
Be Excellent
- The Ultimate Failure is not to try anything at all. No such thing as Failure...only Outcomes.
Keys to Stretching Yourself
- Do something that seems beyond your present ability
- Make public declarations
- Get a peer group
- Be accountable
Take Action !!!!
- The Secret : Intention with discipline creates miraculous RESULTS
- You dont have to see the whole picture
- Start with the end in mind.
- Build momentum and repeat often
- Never Give up
- Procastination is the KISS OF DEATH.
Learning Process
What did I learn this week ?
How can I use it ?
What must I learn next week in order to reach my maximum potential ?
What can I do right now in order to close the GAP ?
5 Figure List - 5 Figure Income
build a 5 figure list earning a five figure income.
5 Main Strategies
Pay Per Click - Google Adwords
$7 Dollar Script - Popularised by Jonathan Ledger
Co Registration
Get A co- registration broker
www.getsubscribers.com
www.topica.com
Title
Description
URL
Refer A Friend Script - Viral Friend Generator
eBay Auctions
- Create a small report ( ebook ) 5 reports
- Sell them at 0.10
- Send them to your own download page with 2 bonuses if they opt in
- If they opt in, download report and 2 bonus
- if they dont opt in, send them to pre-download page with 3 bonuses
- if they opt in , send them to download page + 3 bonuses
- if they dont opt in, send them to original report download page
Below is a list of Traffic Sources recommended by Jaz Lai







* With You, We will never walk alone !
The Finale
Monday, October 1, 2007
Day 3 UYMG ( Kuala Lumpur )

300907 - Stephen Pierce shared the various strategies on Traffic Generation Techniques. A summary of it are listed below :
Google Search Blog -
Search for blogs that are related to your own niche keywords and leave a constructive comments with a backlink back to your site.
Prticipate in discussion, same methodology as the above.
Search methodology >> Search Term+Forum
Youtube -
-Search for videos for keywords related to your niche.
-Search for authors that has several videos on the niche that you are promoting.
-Check out the first video with how many page views and anticipate his second video
-Be the first to post comment and resubmit comment after 20 posts.
-Subscribe to his video newsletter.
-Employ the same methods to Google Video, Yahoo Video, Metacafe and other video sites.
Niche Marketing 2.0It uses the latest tactics and strategies to compete in this hot opportunity.
A Niche Market is not a product.
Characteristic #1
Applying Pull Marketing Strategy instead of Push Marketing.
- Blog with RSS Feed
- Free Podcast Subscription
- Press Release with RSS syndication
( Always check the PR company that you hire has RSS syndication )
* Focus on content rather than trying to outsmart the market.
Characteristic #2
To build a strong relationship with your prospects and customers as one entity instead of two.
- Create a survey tool
Characteristic #3
Separating youself as The Ultimate Authority in your Long Tail Niche Market
- Website | Blog
- Mailing List
- Product
- Joint Venture Partners
- YOU
* Be the leader by having the first hand content before others
Social Proof
Are you having a "conversation" with them ?
Medium used for Niche Marketing 2.0
Medium for Mass Syndication
- Podcasting
- RSS Feed
- Video Syndication
Medium to Enhance Personalisation
Enhance Personalisation
- Audio
- Video
The 3 Factors Of Profiting with Niche Marketing 2.0
The Rise of the Long Tail
The Long Tail Traffic
Recommended Tool - Spyfu
Exposing Yourself in Two Different Niches
Approach " Competitors"
- Be part of their business
Case Study Business Model
Games Portal Site - Flash Games
The Business Model - Portal Game Sites
The Traffic Source - Google Adwords initial impact ( Use Long Tail Keywords )
The Marketing Strategy - Viral Marketing
How To Monetise The Site - Adsense | Advertisement on my site | Sell other people's products
The Future of Niche Marketing 2.0
Three Characteristic
- Pull Marketing
- Build A Strong Relationship
- Becoming An Authority of Your Market
The 3 Factors of Niche Marketing 2.0
- Business Model
- Traffic Source
- Marketing Strategy
That covers pretty much for the 3rd day UYMG. Before I left, I took a picture with Frederick, a Belgium guy who is earning a 5 Figure income from Internet Marketing. I gleaned off a lot of tips from him and he is so willing to share. Nice guy ! Very rare indeed !Saturday, September 29, 2007
Day 2 UYMG ( Kuala Lumpur )
290907 - Its 3am in the morning now and I am still awake. I seldom managed to stay awake after a high powered seminar....Just went hotel downstairs and had a hot glass of milo. I wonder if its because of the HK prostitute next door negotiating her price with the man that woke me up from my light slumber :)There are also 4 tactics that accompanied the business formula.
Tactic 1 -
Tell a persuasive story. Stories goes in under the radar and causes people to be attentive and curious. Grab me by the ears kind of effect. You need to
Lay the Foundation | Engage my Emotions | Layer on the Proof | Answer my Questions
Tactic 2 -
Develop a Persuasive Personal | Voice and Communication | Presentation and Positioning
Tactic 3
Controlling your audience
Tactic 4
Be an expert you have to be seen to sell
We break for 1 hour lunch before Stephen Pierce came on stage and "live" demonstrate the My Space techniques to drive traffic and find GAPS where you can dominate once you identify and position ready yourself. There are 4 quadrants that falls into
N - Needs
S - Solutions
E - Experience
W - Wants
Stephen showed how to find gaps in a niche market in My Space and position ourselves to take the lead and dominate the group with like minded people. Amazing and yet so simple technique..
Late in the afternoon, Christopher Guerriero, the millionaire author came up and shared "How to Write A Bestselling Book in 30 Days or Less "! His Tips as follows:
1 - Choose your subject ( Spend 1 full day masterminding )
2 - Write out main topics to cover ( bullet points ) ( 0.5 day max )
3 - Gather information for each topic ( 2-3 days )
4 - Record everything you know about each topic individually * conversational style * (1 day )
Outsource it
5 - Transcribe it ( 48 hours - $120 assuming 2 hours of audio )
6 - Clean it up a bit
7 - Send it to an editor to make you sound professional ( 7 days - $250 )
8 - Get it typeset and turned it into a professional looking book
2000pm - Jason Tan, a blogger from Malaysia shared how he earned his full time income from blogging using blogger.com.
His "youngest" student is 87 years old...!!! Check out this amazing "Young Man" site. He is amazing !!22:06pm - Thats the time we just reached the hotel ! A full 13 hours of solid info !! Looking forward to tomorrow's event !!
Day 1 UYMG ( Kuala Lumpur )
Stephen Pierce -
On Being Strategic
1 - You must start from where you are.
2 - Strategy is about leveraging your current situation to advance your position.
3 - You build up dominate positions over time, like climbing a ladder.
4 - You must understand a position's potential as a stepping stone to future positions.
5 - Competitive positions are stepping stones. You are always using
your current position to move to a new and better position.
6 - To advance your position you have to take advantage of opportunities.
7 - You must always look for ways to advance your position because
the changing environment is eroding it.
8 - Strategy teaches that you take what is given to you and you use it...not lose it.
On Being Competitive
1 - Successful competition requires knowing what you can control and what you cannot
control.
2 - The more focused your efforts are, the easier it will be to win competitive battles.
Mike Filsaime -
Nuggets and Pearls
1 - Focus on List Building and Relationship Building -
It drives the Growthof the Business and give you your True Asset
2 - Maximise The Power of Viral Marketing
3 - Things Dont Always Go As Planned
4 - There is NO such thing as an Over Night Success.
5 - Keep Creating Content
6 - Present Offers While Time is right
7 - Grow with The Right Staff
8 - Tell Your Story, Share Your Results, Sell Your System
9 - Find The Right Mentors
How To Create Buzz
New
Fresh
Inspirational
Innovative
Controversial
Edgy
Humourous
Heart Warming
Taboo
Secretive
Engaging ( Participation )
Suspenseful
Delivery Mechanism
- Forced - Part of The Sign Up Process -
Myspace.com, Linkedin.com, Facebook.com
- Incentivized - Uses WIIFM
- Hyper Viral - Piggy Backing
- Self Advertising in the use of the product, or the use of the product
requires other friends an family to use the service.
Viral Marketing Workshop
- Take 3 minutes to write down your elevator speech for
your product. Can you tell your story in 30 seconds ?
- What is your USP ? - Unique Selling Proposition ( also Unique Selling Point )
- What is the Benefit to the user?
- How can they get it ? ( Website URL )
Proper Focus Procedure
Identify your project - Focus on 1 project at a time ( 30 Days )
Your Launch Checklist
- Market Research
- Get a Domain Name
- Develop Content
- Start Development
- Set Prelaunch Date
- Set Launch Date
- Design A marketing Plan
- Have Graphics Made
- Hire Copywriter
- Set Up A Merchant Account
- Setup Affiliate Program
- Setup Affiliate Page
- Make Public Announcement
- Set a Launch Contest
- Contact JV Partners
- Start PreLaunch
- Set Up Your Autoresponsers
- Test Fulfilment Process
- Have Support In Place
- Talk With Web Host And Merchant Account
- Launch Site, Email Warm List
- Focus On Post Launch Traffic
Maximizing Profits
- Up Sells
- Down Sells
- Cross Sells
- Bumps
Start - Free Offer - OTO >
They Buy Do Not Buy
- -
Up Sell Down Sell (50% off OTO )
Buy ( Platinum ) Buy ( Silver )
Do Not Buy ( Gold ) Do Not Buy ( Free )
and you thought that was all ? NO NO NO....
Greg Cesar, the next speaker shared his
own guarded Adwords secrets !
Mindset Marketing
- Think like they think
- Feel like they feel
- Breathe like they breathe
- Be what they be
- Know what they buy
- Dont follow the crowd
Amazon Books ( Property Investing )
Look for all book titles relating to property investing and bid on those titles.
Life Insurance
- Who are they ? They are not single people
- What are they looking for ? - New Home, job, career, more money
- Where are they getting it now ? Mortgage broker, car insurance,
home remodeler, homeowner insurance, financial planner.
- Why do they want it ? Provide for family
- When do they need it ? - Some now, some later. ( If the need is
immediate, then gostraight to sales landing page if not, then build
relationship
Rent Estate
- Who - Renters, home owners, sellers
- What - Fix their house, paint, interior decorator
- Where - Painters, interior decorators
- Why - New baby, new job, more money, home office
- When - Some now, some later
Google Strategies ( Do not allow Popups )
- Focus on CTR
- Global Territories ( English and All Territories )
- Geo Targetting ( Virginia ) * Turn it on and choose Virginia
- Site Targetted ( Choose this to tell Google that you only want your ad to show on
www.realtor.com )
- Launch New Campaign at night ( Launch midnight pacific time and turn them off
in the morning ) Do it for a few days and then lower your bid to increase your CTR.
- Test with Content Match before moving it into regular search campaign.
- Put Daily Budget Real High ( 200 Bucks Daily ) (Turn on your Accelerated view )
- Separate money keywords ( Increase your CPC ) and regular keywords into different
ad groups ( Decrease your CPC )
- Track broad, exact phrase match keywords individually ( If broad and phrase match
is not making money, drop your CPC )
- Do not edit existing ads
- Test new keywords as a campaign not as a group
- Set a separate campaign for content match ( Dont set separate bid for content match )
- Set budget to Accelerated View
- Turn off position preference
- Be careful of minimum cost per click
- Google Conversion Tracker
- Advance Strategy - Create 2nd Ad group in Native Language e.g Hong Kong
Creating Your Ads
- Be specific
- Use Numbers
- Stress the benefits
- Copy successful ads from magazines
- Write down Google ads and track them for a few weeks
- Tell them what they get
( Always do split test your Ads for your CTR and your Sales )
Overture | Yahoo ( Allows Popups )
- 4th Spot is a good spot if its a different product from your competitor ( if Same product,
do not allow competitor to have the first spot )
- Send traffic to a redirect on your site
- Send to optin page. High Conversions
- Popup on home page
- Popup on exit
- Bid high if you have competition, Bid lower if no competition in the same category
- Overture content match...Dont do
Google Trends
- Google.com/ Trend
- Geo targetted search results
- See who's searching where
- Get in for lower bids
- Great for offline marketing
Keywords
- Use Mindset Methodology to come up with keywords
- Action keywords vs regular keywords
- Find customers closer to the sale
( customers leave clues )
Take 2 minutes and come up with mindset keywords for a market that you
would like to promote
Money Words to search for
- How to
- Learn
- Where to
- Do it yourself
- Make
- Create
- How much
- Save
- Discount
- Buy
- Movie Titles ( Merchandising )
New Form of Keyword
Bid on Domain Names
Finding Niches
- Study your environment
- SRDS
- Back pages of magazines
- News
- USA Today
- EBay
- Business for sale guides
- Consumer reports
- TeraPeak.com
- Sitepoint.com
- Websiteforsale.com
- Buysell.com
The 4 Stages
Finding
Getting
Keeping
Growing
The speakers wanted to pack in as much info as possible during these 4 days seminar that there's no lunch and dinner break!! We din have it until 11pm...Well, thats an oversight on our part because we were told way before to self pack some sandwiches....Errr...We din pay enough attention to that :)
The various ideas given was spinning in my head even now and I am simply too excited to sleep..or was it the 5 cups of coffee that I had ?
Another thing that upsetted me was half way through the seminar, my boss called me on my personal cell phone to rush a report for a client....I din have the luxury of internet access in the hotel thus had to stay in the seminar room to try to complete it before sending it back to my team the next day...
Few more hours to go before 2nd day of UYMG !
I hope to achieve my goals by end 2007 and I can really say that I have the freedom to do the things whenever, whereever i am. Good Luck to me , Melvin and Love you Mum for watching over me all the time..! Misses you...
Thursday, September 27, 2007
2nd Day in Kuala Lumpur
After my "bumper harvest" we had some street food..Its just simply yummy ! Wow..I couldnt resist having a second go at it ! But we kept our tummy for dinner ! :) The hotel where we stayed " Hotel Seasons View"..the whole street is vendors selling Portugese Fish, Satay, Zi Cha, Sotong, Chicken Wings...How to resist man ???
We ordered Satay, Chicken Wings and here is our Portugese Fish with Sotong, Lala..Spicy and taste super good !!

This is where you find all the nice hawker food...Its just right outside of the hotel where we stayed.
So this is me finishing the updating of this blog post. Tomorrow 12pm will be the start of the internet seminar with Stephen Pierce. I hope to post more photos here. Love you Mum !Arrived in Kuala Lumpur !

260907 - Checked out First World Hotel at 11am and was on the bus all the way down to KL. Arrived at 12.:30pm. We spend an hour looking for the hotel that we booked not knowing that it was right in front of BB plaza. What a joke ! Was totally drenched as it was pouring but it was fun...Feels like a kid again. I totally totally appreciate having fun in the rain again ! :) The hotel story begins here :p The receptionist told us that we need to upgrade our room as the compressor was down ! :O I was quite amused but not Lab. She was quite pissed..haha..They finally agreed to let us have the upgrade room FREE and will shift us back to our economy room when the aircon is fixed. So off we checked in and found that we can get FREE wireless surfing...Cool ! We offloaded our luggage and went shopping and to Chinatown for our Portugese Fish !! My favourite !! By the time we are back, its about 11pm...slept like a log !!2nd Day in Genting

250907 - Woked up 9:30am, had a sumptuous breakfast and off we went to the outdoor theme park. I had my first go with "The Lift" My heart nearly pop out when you suddenly feel the rush of free fall ! Now I know how it feels the moment when someone jumps off a high rise building commiting suicide.
We had a lot of fun and spend nearly the whole day at the theme park before going back to the hotel...dead tired !! Had a quick dinner before visiting the Casino...It was smokey...since we dont gamble, we took a walk and went back to the hotel to rest for the night before checking out for KL tomorrow...Arrived in Genting !
240907 - We reached Genting at 3pm, after settling down with "danch" lunch+dinner, we explored the place. Its been years since I last visited and there's so much changes. The whole place is a theme park by itself with lots of entertainment, casino, shows, food and indoor roller coaster !! The weather is blrrr....Cold !! This picture is taken in Genting right now at Starbucks as I am updating this blog.7pm - We went for our FREE magic show. Its a 1 hour show with lots of flying stuntman and the illusionist flying across the stage...Awesome !! It's about 8pm when we are done, more shopping and photo taking before we rest for the night....
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Genting + UYMG Malaysia Trip
Thursday, September 20, 2007
A Man Of Few Words
200907 - Mum, I saw this on a billboard in Compass Point...So funny and yet so true...I remembered whenever you asked me " How's work? I always said "ok" and to me thats a good answer...hehe..but I guess to you, you expected me to talk a bit more...or at least a mini - verbal diarhoea.. Remember my last post about me attending the high powered seminar with my friend, one of the speaker talks about men being the hunter and woman being the gatherer...thats why woman is good at shopping...they gathers ! :)